Fulfilling Activities in Adult Day Centers

Creating fulfilling activities for seniors can be challenging at times, especially if they are suffering from memory loss or physical ailments that limit their abilities to participate the way that others can.  I am blessed to work with some of the most creative people I have ever met.   They are constantly meeting this need for the seniors in our Adult Day Center.  They never cease to amaze me and I am constantly learning from them.

There are two main things that I have learned the most from my co-workers:
1. Try anything, no matter how odd it may seem;  you never know what might work.
2. If it failed once, that does not mean that it will fail again.

We offer a variety of different activities every month.  Sometimes certain activities are scheduled on specific days of the week with certain clients in mind.  For instance, for the lawyer who only comes in on Tuesdays and Thursdays, we schedule a game called "You Be The Judge."  This game engages this client extremely well and brings back to his life a chance to share his knowledge.   Then there is the retired English Professor who misses leading lectures in his classroom; he is given an opportunity to present a different topic each month to the other clients and staff.  By providing this activity for him, we are giving him a sense of purpose and a chance to perform.  There also is a client that spent her life raising her nine children - yes that is right 9 children -  she spent much of her time after her children were grown making quilts but because of memory loss she had stopped doing this.  My staff was able to find a way for her to continue this joy in her life.  It took several different approaches to find the best way for her to be successful at it, but she now comes into the center and gets right into it without hesitation.  I could go on and on with examples of these types of great things that happen in our Adult Day Center.

As clients remain at our center over time, their level of functioning will change.   Activities they once were successful at become difficult and frustrating for them.  Again, my staff observes this and quickly adapts to these changes. An example of this would be to remind you of the client that is a lawyer, that I spoke of in the paragraph above.  Since he started at our center, his condition has progressed and he no longer finds fulfillment in that game.  So the activity for this client was changed.  We looked for another opportunity for him to feel useful.  What we found was that he needed to be responsible for something in the center that made him feel useful.  So we gave him the task of helping with setup for activities and clean up when they are over.  He takes this responsibility very seriously and it is a huge help to our staff.  A win, win situation.

These activities are a direct product of my staff - by them constantly looking for ways for our clients to feel important and useful again.   There are also many activities that, in general, can be easily managed no matter what their losses may be.   We do use these activities regularly as well.  But who wants to do the same thing every day?  We all need variety in our lives no matter what age we are.

Adult Day Services can provide useful, fulfilling and satisfying activities for seniors.  They are designed to provide stimulation and socialization, which in the long run will keep older adults more active physically and mentally.  With all that to offer, it seems kind of silly not to check them out.  This kind of structure to a person's day will keep them living independently longer and can provide comfort to families that their loved one is being productive in a safe environment. 

Aging with Ease can be obtained by feeling useful as older adults!

The Value of a Quality Movie!

Ahhh, the movies!  Who doesn't love a good movie?  They can entice your senses.  They can make you dream of another life.  They can give you hope.  They can scare you to death.  They can make you feel warm and fuzzy.  They can open your eyes to the world.   They can make you laugh and cry.  They can educate you.  So many ways that a good movie can satisfy the senses...  The value of a movie is one thing that does not change as we age.  Movies can satisfy your senses at any age!

 However, in this day and age as an older adult, it can be hard to find a good movie to go see.   So many of the current movies don't seem to offer a whole lot of value.  Let's face it, many of them are just plain raunchy!  They seem to just be trying to shock you by just how inappropriate the content can get.  I was thinking about this during the past week as I searched for an appropriate movie to take a group of clients to from the Adult Day Center that I work in.  There were very few choices and really nothing with any value to them. 

I feel that mainstream movie-makers are missing a fairly large group of potential moviegoers by not having more options of movies available for the older population.  As I looked over the listings at our local movie theater, they were showing 12 different movies and only one of them was one that I would even consider taking a group of older adults to.  HELLO, baby boomers are now the largest group of people over 60 years old that has ever occurred!   They should have more options for satisfying their senses when they want to see a movie.

We routinely show movies at the Adult Day Center that I work at.  They are mostly older movies that they have requested to see.  Movies are a great way for them to remember their past.  The movies we show tend to spark memories in our clients, which induce conversations in the center.  I view that as a successful activity.   Any activity that gets people talking to each other and reminiscing about their lives should be viewed as a good thing.  I love hearing these conversations.  It helps me learn more about who these people really were in their life.  It also makes me realize that everybody essentially wants the same things in life.  To be happy, loved and secure. 

The selection of older movies that can be shown  are endless but try to find a list of current movies that fits the criteria, the list does not form so quickly.   I suggest that this is because our society just simply does not value our older adults as they should.   The majority of movies today are driven to attract the young.  Don't get me wrong, I love the movies.  All types of movies.  I am simply suggesting that more quality movies be made more often.  By "quality movies" I mean movies with substance that inspire hope, real life and give a connection to life.  Movies such as: The Help, Moneyball, The Notebook, Blindside and The Greenmile come too far and few between. 

Satisfying your senses keeps a person on the path to Aging with Ease.

The Benefit of Adult Day Centers

So one of my clients pointed out a "Dear Abby" column from a few months ago and asked me: "Why is there nothing in this response about Adult Day Services?"
I read the column and sure enough not one mention of Adult Day Services.  In the column a family is dealing with the ever changes and challenges of Alzheimer's Disease.  They have concerns for safety, inability for self care and isolation.   These are all areas that can be meet with an Adult Day Center at a fraction of the costs of in-home or long term care.
Don't get me wrong, each situation is unique and should be evaluated by the entire family together including the person with the illness.  The suggestions offered in the column's response are excellent choices but I do feel that all options should be represented.
At Adult Day Centers people can attend daily, most centers are open by 7am and don't close until 5pm, there are even some centers that specialize in memory loss programs.  All Adult Day Centers must be licensed by their state.
Be sure not to confuse a Senior Center for an Adult Day Center there is a big difference.  Senior Centers, like Adult Day Centers,  are a place for older adults to gather and participate in different activities that may be available that day.  The difference comes in when the client starts to decline, maybe physically, maybe mentally.  At a Senior Center they will not provide the personal care needs but at an Adult Day Center they will.  If confusion starts to become a problem or they have poor motivation to participate and become part of the group typically a senior center will tell you that it is not working out there for that person anymore but at an Adult Day Center our staff will help engage clients in the activities, find things for them to do that interest them, provide activities to promote self confidence so they can feel success instead of frustration with their losses.
I could go on forever about the benefits of Adult Day Center and I am sure this will not be the last that you hear about how great they are.  If you have or know someone that is older and spends to much time at home, alone, whether they have memory loss or not, please check out an Adult Day Center near you,  you might be surprised what you find.

 Click here for Dear Abby column