Time to Hang Up the Keys?

What do you do when your parent or spouse is unsafe to drive a car any longer?  This is a delicate problem.  Of all the things that you lose as you age, not being able to drive a vehicle any more can be one of the most difficult to face.  It is one of the biggest losses of independence an older adult can encounter.

Some signs that it may be time to stop driving:
1. Slowed motor reflexes
2. Decline in vision
3. Impaired hearing
4. Decline in attention span
5. Physical limitations (neck, arms and/or legs)
6. A few "Close Calls"- almost hitting someone, dents or scratches on your car

If your loved one is experiencing one or more of these difficulties, it may mean that it is time to look at their driving safety.  Being forthcoming about these limitations can help to understand the risk that they may be taking by driving a vehicle.  It would be horrible for them to be responsible for a terrible accident by avoiding these questions.  The last thing anyone wants is to hurt themselves or somebody else.  The risk for fatal motor accidents rises significantly after the age of 70.

Another important point is for them to know their limitations.  If they don't see well at night, then don't drive at night.  If they get nervous driving to certain areas because of traffic congestion, then don't drive to those areas.  If they have pain in their neck when they try to look back over their shoulder, have it checked by a physician.

Tips to staying healthy behind the wheel:
1. Stay active
2. Have regular eye and hearing exams
3. Manage any chronic conditions
4. Know your limitations
5. Plan ahead for trips
6. Drive when weather is good

If you feel that it is time to hang up the keys, you do not have to face this obstacle alone.  Ask your physician for support in this and ask that he recommend this for your loved one. You can request to discuss it with him at an appointment.  There are driving courses available for older adults that you can enroll in to have them evaluated by a professional.

Click Here to visit the AARP link to their Driver Safety Program.

Being safe behind the wheel contributes to Aging with Ease!